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A great friend, Kathryn Whitaker, launched a complete refresh of her blog, Team Whitaker, today. Previously hosted on Blogger, Kathryn hired a designer and asked me to provide technical services related to the transition.

If you don’t know Kathryn, you may have seen her work. She produces a great deal of the “promotional” materials for seemingly every Catholic campus ministry program in the country, including the University Catholic Center at UT-Austin and St. Mary’s Student Center at Texas A&M.

Check out her site, subscribe by e-mail or RSS and fall in love with her and her family.

The Small Things – Buy 6 Get 1 Free Edition

A photo of a cup of coffee.
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Olivia and I like going to the grocery store together. We have a little ritual. We get up and get ready. She drinks her milk and I slam my head into the wall a few times to wake up. We load up into the car and head to HEB. We’re usually there near 7 a.m.

Since I’ve already been up for awhile and the slamming-your-head-into-the-wall trick only works so well, our first stop is the coffee stand followed by produce. I need my coffee and Olivia needs her banana.

I’m a sucker for gimmicks. Frequent flyer miles. Games that are based on increasing level. Checking in on location-based sites to get badges or pins or whatnot. All in all, it’s a waste of time, but it brings some order to my world.

HEB has a promotion where when you buy six cups of coffee, your seventh is free. The day I save $1.42 and get my free coffee will be a great and glorious day. There’s only one small problem. You actually need to have the card with you when you purchase or it doesn’t count.

Why HEB? Why?! Today’s grocery adventure was fine and Olivia was great. The coffee just didn’t go down as well.

How Can I Help You?

[This is the last in a series looking at my decision to leave the UCC and what's next for me. Return to the first post.]

A Knights of Columbus Field Agent?

Yes sir! Yes ma’am! The Knights of Columbus was founded in 1882 by the Venerable Servant of God Father Michael McGivney. Fr. McGivney had his own seminary studies interrupted by the premature death of his father, forcing him to return home to work for the survival of his family. Later, as a young priest, he witnessed first-hand what was happened to the families in his parish if and when the primary breadwinner died. Emotionally, it’s hard to lose a family member, but financially, it can be downright cruel.

Fr. McGivney at one point volunteered to be a count-appointed guardian to a boy whose family couldn’t prove to the court that they had the means to support him. (At that time in Connecticut, families had to prove their income potential after the husband passed away. If they couldn’t prove enough potential, the courts would move to break apart the family to try to keep the family as financially solvent as possible).

Between that and seeing a need for a way for Catholic men to have a sense of belonging, he founded the Knights of Columbus as a fraternal benefits society to give men both a brotherhood of which to be a part as well as to help ensure the welfare of widows and children if one of the members died.

As a Field Agent, basically, I would see to further enact Fr. McGivney’s vision of financial security to Catholic families if the unthinkable happened for a geographical area within Austin. I will be assigned a number of councils (the local, parish-level organization) and will meet with those families to help them assess their financial needs with a particular emphasis on life insurance, annuities and long-term care insurance.

In other words, I’m not about what you should invest in or not nor other things like that, but rather to help with the questions of: What would happen if one of us passed away? What is a safe vehicle for retirement? What happens if the stock market crashes the year before I retire–can I plan for that? What happens to my family if I need some type of long-term care (rehab hospital, nursing home, home health care, etc)?

The Knights of Columbus offers to members various products to help find solutions to those questions and my job will be to personally help members figure out what they need and to get it.

Additionally, I will be a resource to my councils to help them in other ways related to the Knights and to help introduce men to the Knights of Columbus.

Vanessa and I are excited about this new opportunity and I’m honored that I will be welcomed into so many homes around Austin. I’m looking forward to being able to do some good for families. If you have any questions about this all, leave a comment, give me a call or shoot me an e-mail.

Thank you all for your prayers for our family as I transition into this new role.

When One Door Closes…

[This the third post in a series looking at my decision to leave the UCC and what's next. Return to the first post.]

What are you going to do now?

When discerning how to handle the conflict rising in me, I created a list of priorities:

  1. Need to be home more.
  2. Need to make no less than my current salary.
  3. Need flexible schedule.
  4. Need to continue doing something I’m passionate about.

At first, I started thinking about if I should try to flesh out “Brandon Kraft Tech Services”. When friends, small organizations I’m involved with, etc have asked me to help them on some level with a website, I use Tech Services as a platform for offering them webspace, domain name and some other really basic things at a low price that, frankly, I would like to see offset the total cost of my website. I don’t spend much on this, but it would be nice to be able to tell Vanessa that all my geekness is budget-neutral. I’m too nice and never charge enough to really offset all of my costs, but whatever.

That would give me 1, 3 and 4 (to a degree). That’s scary though. With little savings (at least little when you have a wife and kid, thinking about all of the possible unforeseen expenses there) and only one income source (my salary), I don’t feel that it would be a prudent choice to do that. Simply stated, there’s too much that could go wrong with no safety net and I would have to seek out and find any and all support structures for starting this business.

I’d would like, sometime, to do something like that or freelance, but I know I need some more structure and experience before completely jumping off the deck. If nothing else, need to make it a hobby that produces a side income first.

I started thinking about other churches or non-profits, but quickly dismissed that thought. Moving into something similar than what I’ve been doing, while safe, wouldn’t be different enough to meet my objectives.

While all of this thought is going on, I’ve been increasing being more active with the Knights of Columbus. Originally, I joined the St. Ignatius council, built and currently operate their website. The UCC started a new push to reactive their dormant council and as part of that, I was convinced to serve as the Financial Secretary for the new council, something that is actually fun and I’m enjoying.

The Knights of Columbus is a fraternal benefits society, which means they exist to give benefit to their members. In their case, the Knights offer life insurance, annuities and long-term care insurance to their members and I met a few different field agents who work toward that aspect of the Knights.

I found my way into contact with the General Agent for this area who told me more about the position and that they were looking for someone in Austin. It would allow me to office from home while meeting with families in their homes. My schedule would be flexible, as long as I get the work done. The salary starting off is in the right ballpark. The mission of ensuring the financial well-being of a family after a death is important to me.

For those that don’t know, my father, the sole-income source for my family, died when I was 12 years old; without his life insurance, I have zero idea how my family would have survived. Losing him was incredibly hard emotionally, but financially, he had planned well-enough to ensure that we had enough to make ends meet.

If you add up working from home, with a flexible schedule, suitable income and a cause I care about, it resulted in a possibility with real merit. Vanessa and I talked. The Knights and I talked. I will soon be the newest Knights of Columbus Field Agent.

What does that mean?

It All Comes Down to Kids

[This is the second of four posts regarding my decision to leave the UCC and what's next. Read the first post.]

Why are you leaving the UCC?

I met my wife through a mission trip that I only went on because a
friend asked me to go in the UCC computer lab. Four of the five priests
and the deacon at our wedding I knew through the UCC (and the fifth I
met because of the trip I met my wife on!). We went to the marriage
preparation workshop here and had our daughter baptized here. As much of my family existing is because of the UCC, they are my primary motivation in moving on.

Having two weeks at home after the birth of Olivia got to me. I liked
being at home. I liked being able to go in from working in another room
into the living room with Vanessa and Olivia. If I missed Olivia, I
just picked her up. I liked that a lot. As much as I tried to shake it,
I simply missed being at home with my family. I know, I know, most
people spend 40+ hours a week at work outside the home and that’s
great. It’s not what was enriching me though.

I was fortunate enough to transition out of pastoral ministry into a position driven more by operations when Olivia was born, which was a blessing and a curse. A blessing because it established regular, set hours and allowed me the freedom, without guilt, of being at home even though most things within the building happen in the evenings. The curse, however, was that I missed the students.

In all fairness, there’s no way to have my cake and eat it too. Can I have all of the hours at home I want while still doing everything that satisfied me at the UCC? At least with our current workload levels, it’s not possible. Do I do something that isn’t as enjoyable while not being as home as much as I want, do I do something I enjoy quite a bit but be at home even less, or do I go for a third option?

I’m choosing option three.

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