Archive - November, 2008

All I Want for Christmas…

With all of this talk of the start of the Christmas season, I’ve been asked what’s on my wish list. Honestly, I’m happy with the time off and spending it with Vanessa.

But, if you were to twist my arm, there are a few things I’d like to see under the tree this year.

First, I think Apple’s iPhone is on many folks list, including mine. I already have a BlackBerry and I’m not sure if the iPhone’s AT&T plan would be cost efficient. Nevertheless, the iPhone is fun.

More likely, Apple’s iPod Touch (an iPhone without the phone) is the top item on my list. The iTunes App Store with computer-favorites, like Remember the Milk or Facebook, plus some iPod Touch apps like UrbanSpoon are just cool.

I like technological toys, so Amazon’s Kindle would also find a happy home with me. The Kindle is an ebook reader, that among other things, can download new ebooks to itself from anywhere with a Sprint wireless data connection.

On Amazon.com, I have a few wishlists listing various other things I’ve thought were interesting over the years.

All of that being said, I’m not actually wanting of this for Christmas. Every year, for as long as I can remember, I’ve “wished” for various things, most of them were overpriced electronics. Christmas isn’t about getting what you want, or getting anything at all, but about giving to others, about celebrating the coming of the Savior into the world. It’s easy to get swept into the commercialism and materialism that the secular side of the holiday provides, and within limits, it is fun to dream of what cool toys might be found under the tree.

For Christmas, far too many people will go without food, clean water, decent shelter or human companionship. Our focus should not be on ourselves, or the gifts that we want to give or recieve from our families and friends, but rather, how can we become Christ to others? Afterall, Christmas is about Christ coming into the world, so why shouldn’t we make our own Christmas celebration about Christ coming to those left neglected in the world.

Can we do both? Help others and get a cool toy? Sure, but don’t forget which is more important.

Happy Thanksgiving!

To all, a quick note wishing everyone a Happy Thanksgiving! May today be a day of family, friends and giving thanks to God and each other for all of the blessings in our lives.

Hook ‘Em Horns! (7 pm, Football vs Texas A&M, ESPN)

The Junior Administration

Has anyone else noticed that both President-Elect Obama and Vice President-Elect Biden are named after their fathers?

According to change.gov, the website for the Office of the President-Elect, Barack Obama’s father was “Barack Obama, Sr.”, although no reference is made on the site for President-Elect Obama being “Barack Obama, Jr.” despite their names, including middle, being the same. Joe Biden’s biography on the site lists him as “Joseph Robinette Biden, Jr.”, obviously the son of Joe Biden, Sr.

Our current president and vice president are also both named after their fathers, except both President Bush and Vice President Cheney have different middle names than their fathers’.

Anyone else think it just a bit random?

Book Review: The Truth About You

I recently read The Truth About You:
Your Secret to Success
by Marcus Buckingham and found the book
interesting. The book comes in three pieces: a ~30-minute DVD, an
actual book and a notepad, stylized as a “ReMemo” pad.

Truly, I cannot decide if I liked the
DVD (which the book asks you watch before reading) or not. I have a
personal preconceived notion that a charismatic guy talking about
self-discovery is faking it. Mr. Buckingham seems very genuine, but
for me, I had to work hard to actually listen to him. In reality, the
DVD has some great basic “truths” about life–nothing
groundbreaking or worthy of a call to mother to tell her you’ve
discovered the newest nugget required for life.

The book is an “interactive book”,
which I wasn’t sure what that meant when I started reading it. I
expected the book and the DVD to work in tandem with each other, to
be weaved into use more. After watching the DVD before reading the
book, the DVD is referenced but not used again. An interactive book,
in this case, means the book, while mostly text to read, does include
various prompts with space for you to write a response.

My biggest critique is that the book
seems to just repeat what the DVD already said. Sure, there’s a bit
more depth and reading it gives you a chance to think about it in a
different way, but I had the urge to skip paragraphs because of the
“I’ve already heard this from him” line of thought.

That being said, I think the book still
has a great market–groups. While individually, I think the book was
good–not great–as a self-discovery tool, the book has great
potential to be used as part of a group to help individual members
discover more about their strengths and weaknesses. Whether you’re a
corporation, a prayer group or whatever else, using this
DVD/book/notepad set as a guided practice to help individuals
discover and discuss the results would be quite fruitful. As an
individual, I wanted to “skip ahead to the good stuff”, but the
good stuff about this book is what my mind naturally wanted me to
skip. In a group setting, I would have been “called out” early
for this and been able to more deeply enjoy the book’s strengths.

In short, if you’re really yearning to
discover more about your strengths or weaknesses, give this book a
try. If you feel alright about what you already know, find a group of
folks who are like-minded or are yearning and experience this book
together.

After the jump, you can explore the first few pages of the book.

Disclaimer: I was given this book by
the publisher, Thomas Nelson, as part of a program for book
reviewers, but given no direction to follow nor compensation for this
review.
DISCLOSURE OF MATERIAL CONNECTION: http://cmp.ly/2

Continue Reading…

Do you tithe?

I was directed toward a review of a book, Passing the Plate: Why American Christians Don’t Give Away More Money. The review mentions has poorly American Christians donate. Some of the numbers:

If just the “committed Christians” (defined as those who attend church at least a few times a month or profess to be “strong” or “very strong” Christians) would tithe, there would be an extra 46 billion dollars a year available for kingdom work. To make that figure more concrete, the authors suggest dozens of different things that $46 billion would fund each year: for example, 150,000 new indigenous missionaries; 50,000 additional theological students in the developing world; 5 million more micro loans to poor entrepreneurs; the food, clothing and shelter for all 6,500,000 current refugees in Africa, Asia, and the Middle East; all the money for a global campaign to prevent and treat malaria; resources to sponsor 20 million needy children worldwide. Their conclusion is surely right: “Reasonably generous financial giving of ordinary American Christians would generate staggering amounts of money that could literally change the world.”

Chapter 2 outlines the dismal reality of what American Christians actually give. Twenty percent of American Christians (19 percent of Protestants; 28 percent of Catholics) give nothing to the church. Among Protestants, 10 percent of evangelicals, 28 percent of mainline folk, 33 percent of fundamentalists, and 40 percent of liberal Protestants give nothing. The vast majority of American Christians give very little–the mean average is 2.9 percent. Only 12 percent of Protestants and 4 percent of Catholics tithe.

A small minority of American Christians give most of the total donated. Twenty percent of all Christians give 86.4 percent of the total. The most generous five percent give well over half (59.6 percent) of all contributions. But higher-income American Christians give less as a percentage of household income than poorer American Christians. In the course of the 20th century, as our personal disposable income quadrupled, the percentage donated by American Christians actually declined.

Wow.

What exactly does it mean to tithe? While I haven’t read this latest book for their definition, typically, “to tithe” means to give 10% of your income. We most commonly see “tithing” in the context of the Old Testament in various forms. As Christians, we are not subject to the law strictly, but as we believe that all we have belongs to God, we are bound to contribute back toward the greater good. In some circles, 10% is considered the ideal, in others the baseline for giving back.

My wife and I decided to literally tithe, giving 10% of our pre-tax income away.

Where to give? Do give it all to the church? No. Canon 222 states that as faithful, we have two particular financial obligations: to support the Church and to support the poor. We have discerned that means roughly 5% should go to the Church and 5% should go elsewhere.

Since “the Church” is both the local parish and the local diocese (through their annual appeal), we have decided to give 4% to our parish and 1% to the diocese. The remaining 5% is split among a number of organizations including our parish’s monthly second collection for charity, Meals on Wheels, Casa Juan Diego. We deviate from the 5% for church and 5% for others as we give to a religious order and to the Peter’s Pence out of the 5% for others.

For us, 10% is a sacrifice. Before getting married, I gave what I thought was a fair amount to the parish through our parish’s monthly automatic giving program. When we sat down with a calculator and our paystubs, I was shocked how little I was actually giving. After adjusting to consider only my income, I only gave less than 1% of my income to church and a much lower amount to other charities.

Years down the road, we may be blessed with the financial capacity that 10% is no longer a sacrifice. If that day ever comes, I pray that we’ll realize our blessings and give even more back toward the greater good.

Whether or not you can donate 10% of your income isn’t the point. Are you purposeful in your giving? Do you actually pray and ask God to help guide you in your donation decisions? Do you give your first fruits (i.e. give to others when your paycheck arrives, or do you wait to see what’s left before the next payday)? If you’re married, have you had a conversation about what causes you think are important and worthy of your donations? Have you discussed why you think they’re important?

Tip of the hat to The Deacon’s Bench for bringing this book to my attention.

Updated 11/11/08

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